It's Life!

Era's after era's! Years after years! This has been happening....
Women giving the Agni pariksha for their Men... Sita gave this test by walking on fire... and ever since then this repeated in every era, every period of time!
One version says... "Ram had never doubted Sita's purity even for a second, but, as he explains to a dazzled Sita, the people of the world would not have accepted or honoured her as a queen or a woman if she had not passed this Agni pariksha before the eyes of millions, where Agni would destroy the impure and sinful, but not touch the pure and innocent."
Another version of this, was that "Rama had known Sita was going to be abducted by Ravana ahead of time. So, he entrusted her to Agni Dev, or the God of Fire. Rama did this so that he, who in reality was Vishnu, could kill Ravana. Sita, in turn, left behind a "shadow", or twin-like version of herself behind. The "shadow" Sita had been abducted by Ravana. Therefore, the lila of Agni Pariksha was to retrieve the genuine Sita from the temporary care of Agni Dev. "
(Source: Wikipedia)

I am not blaming anyone here... Nor Ram! Neither Men!
No one is at fault! No one is to be blamed!
If life has some rules... so be it! Living it!
10% Love, brings 20% Pain & suffering along with it... Thats life... not complaining!
Being a woman is an honour to life! is an honour to live!
A lot runs in the head all the time at a very high frequency rate... brings suffering, pain, frustration, emotional disturbances... yet end of the day... their is tolerance, paitence & peace!
Feels proud to be a woman! to be a strenght of mankind! be it in the form of Sita for Ram or just a woman in a man's heart!
Its Womanpower! Its a woman's trust, faith & intention!
Read this quote and believe in it completely... "She can be the wind below your wings or the reason for your ship to sink!" Choice is yours...
She will give... she will wait... she will smile and she will be by you always!
She is a woman... simply defined as powerful! :)