It's Life!

Surrounded by these 2 leagues of people...
one who are married or just married and
one who are trying to get married!
and then there is also a third league... but thats not important at the moment...

League 1 are the ones who are already in part 2 of life so not even talking about it.
Currently its the 2nd league who's kinetic energy is a matter of worry!
Its an activity filled epic going on in the lives of all of those "trying to get married"...
Drama of parents, drama of caste difference, drama of religion difference... and all this drama only coz of "non acceptance"... fighting it out, trying to stick it out!
Parents health at stake, family values at stake, professions and careers at stake... all for wat...?
for fullfilling the desire of being with the partner for life, chosen by self!
Its a stand you take when you are hardest hit. Its tuff choices.
A point comes when one makes the decision for both and whether the other likes or not, he/she is left to accept it. Mutually acceptable decisions... thats one form of bullshit talks in these cases! never works! one has to agree to the other whether or not he/she wants to. Isnt a relationship a form of interdepence? So then it eventually lands up with one taking a decision and the other living up to it.

Bloody there is so much hype of the drama within yourself that sometimes you wonder is fight even worth it! may be not... yet you fight! Afterall we all need some activity to burn some calories and to one day sit on an arm chair and sing to the world... oh I have experienced those times too! Whether failed or succeeded... whether given up or did hold on... its just a moment that defines life then!

Quite an ultimate crossroad of life... most important relations at stake, confidence levels at stake... just everything that took to build you up & get to this far in life is at stake!
and all that you are left with is "a choice" that will have a ripple effect on everything on either side... its like one side is a valley and the other side an ocean... both sides survival will be tuff!... but choice is urs at the end of the day! coz destiny is a matter of your choice in that moment!

Tuff times... but thats one part of life... where if you stick it out or you dont... you will have an edge of an enriched experience! :)
I am with you... my "trying to get married" people! Stick it out when you are hardest hit... rest if you must, but dont you quit!