It's Life!

Something that bothered a year ago or probably a week ago... doesnt even matter now.
How significant we make things when they occur...
But thats when I realise that it was the Reality of that moment! :)

When I think of so many moments now, I sometimes feel stupid that... even something so trivial could have bothered, or such a stupid thing put me on a crossroad decision, or just some people became so significant or just some expectations that ruled the head...
Now after its like a 'been there done that'... it can be laughed and probably even forgotton but in that moment of time it seemed like the biggest ever trouble or event or watever it was...
How strange is this "Time" business... the clock keeps ticking without any rest breaks...
and just a moment that was so significant an hour ago, suddenly seems like wats the big deal yaar! but that was reality of the moment an hour ago!

Used to have this list of my set of principals and some rubbish stubborness about it too... It all seemed so real at that moment... but today can see that could have eased up a bit... probably thats real in this moment!

Wish we stopped making everything so significant...
We stop talking to people we mess up with like forever... like why! why make it such a big deal...
We hold on grudges, ego issues and so much more to only keep snapping at each other later in life... really man... why!
why make life so significant when it really is a temporary event!
its gonna end soon... then why resist from reviving lost friendships, from just accepting cracks and moving to build better quality glasses, from people whom we have broken ties with, from just everything we made so significant when it occured!

Writing this crap... in the reality of this moment! :) and smiling... that its still just a moment...
Oh yeah... reminds me of... "Aanewala pal tou jaane wala hai... Ho sake tou isme zindagi bitado... pal eh bhi jaanewala hai"...
Frictions, fireworks, tears, sadness... is all that remains in a lost friendship or a broken tie! Sure... even that was required/Real in that moment. But living with it forever feels stupid to even think of it. What was so real and significant in that moment is no more now... then why hold on to the same stubborness...

Loosen up the stubborness... or probably from the grave also v'll shout... my decisions wont ever budge, my this, my that... the significant "me" and "my ways"... doesnt matter whether it impacts or alters largely the people and environment around... but wat matters is the significant "me".
Loosen up man! Loosen up! Just a Reality of this moment!