It's Life!

Uff! Wonder whats with the age factor!
This blog is jus straight from a girls heart!
These are those years of life which is in real terms only termed "stress" for a girl...
Right from turning 23... till the time the martial status turns to married... this unsuppressable stress just goes on and on and on...
Girls parents go through just the same... makes me feel... is it really worth being a girl?
Well ya... if I see this benefit that in our so called society its only a girl who can stay at home, unemployed for howmuch ever time she wishes! If a boy is sitting jobless at home... the amount of pressure built on him by people around is surely double than a girl in the same jobless situation! The kick on self confidence and self esteem is obviously equally hit... this low shot doesnt carry gender bias :)! But can say this with experience... a woman can handle it a little better than the men... maybe coz her stress load is lesser in terms of people pressure!
Even one of the 7 vows in marraige that the boy takes is that he will never remain jobless... will always work to feed his wife! freak! what a gender bias! :)

Coming back to marital pressure...
Was talking to my married friend... who got married at 30... and she says now it feels did those 6 stressful years really come in my life or m I imagining it? Its almost like alls well when it ends well... and so those stressful years feel like they just passed by!
But what bout when u are in the moment!...
Gosh... when your mom wakes up at 2am and cries in worry... she is worried will my daughter get settled or not!!! Parents faces go through a series of emotions in these years that are jus passing by... The girl goes on a guilt trip that oh freak... parents have to go through these tensed stressed moments only because of her! When she sees the tension lines on fathers forehead and a tearful face of mother... she wonders do they deserve going through this only because she is their daughter! Its really a chicken and egg situation... there is guilt on one side and there is her own thoughts on the other end!

Nyways... all that everyone talks about is marriage!!! isnt there anything else to talk about?
"Yours friends are all married! what bout u? when will u marry?" are the questions that every, litreally every tom dick and harry stop by to ask...
suddenly feels as if the whole world has no other work but to target this little girl who herself is going through a variety of emotions within herself.
Is it really required to go through such truckloads of stress???
23 to 30 or more... spending 6-7 years of life is just dealing with a question when will u marry?
isnt that too much of time waste!!!??

I remember when I joined college... mom made this statement that if you study well for the next 5 years of your life then you will be able to enjoy the rest of your life... but if you waste these next years... you will have to slog it out later in life... the choice is yours!
I feel these years of being in the age between 23 to 30 is almost like those 5 years of study she was talking bout... If you worry, be tensed, take stress for these 6-7 years of your life... then and only then you will get a life partner with whom you can chill out the rest of your life!
w t f m I talking!
Guess.... its just the stress you see! :)
well but seriously... I wish women dont go through these stressed years of life! and I wish people around just let us be!
May be some day even I will say... oh were these years really a part of my life!