It's Life!

But only my relationship with communication in the context of marriage.

So, on our marriage day, his twinkling eyes, his blushing smile, his glow communicated millions of conversations to me without anything said verbally.

During one of the puja, our best friends were chatting with us on the most important aspect of our life after marriage which is communication... they said come what may make sure you both communicate your feelings towards each other, your sharings about your day, your emotions, if you dislike something make sure you communicate it to each other. In short just whatever happens from your day 2 of marriage make sure it is between an open communication line with you two. 

While I was listening to all this... here's what was running in my head... communication! oh common thats the very reason I chose to marry him. I can communicate every little bit, every random thought, every low every high just every single thing of my mind without a slightest itch. Ofcourse I am confident that this aspect will continue forever, we were best friends and we will remain best friends since that will make our husband wife bond the bestest and easiest way to live together. And its an underlined fact that communication between two best friends is obviously always a very open one and effortless, so then whats the big deal. Why so much of stress on communication, its an obvious thing and I know for a fact that me and him will always have the communication line open between us.

It was that moment when I guess I was taking it for granted that communication will be an effortless journey always between two best friends turned life partners. 

Not knowing the turn of events in life has a different plan.

My relationship with communication now... 

I have no more words... and I dont know what to write further! 

Thats how it is.