It's Life!

People say… I know myself… if you do, can you disassociate yourself when you want to solve a problem from the surroundings & solve it objectively…
If you know yourself well… your internal being, your reactions, actions… you can do that… you can actually detach yourself, disassociate yourself from that situation… even though you are in the middle of it… you can still internally detach & react to it objectively, just in the same way you would have if you were thinking about it being away from its surroundings… when alone & in a dark room…
You can obviously be objective when you are alone, when you are in quietness, when no ones disturbing you… but why is always so difficult to think when there is noise?
You want to be alone to detach…. But then that doesn’t mean you could internalise your feelings… you are not emotionally intelligent enough to understand exactly what you go through… because if you understood exactly what you are going through when you were faced with the problem, when there was commotion around you, when there was noise, when there were people, when there were objects around then that’s knowing yourself…

Knowing yourself is detachment inpsite of the mess around… not detachment when alone!

Can you become the third person to yourself when you are already between people???
You wait for people to go because you think once everyone’s gone; I will get the space to think… why??? That’s what the point is… you are not capable enough to think the same way when you are surrounded as compared to the way you would think when you are alone…
Why do you need the support of loneliness? Or that state of darkness to think…
Why cant you detach when there are 10 people talking, when you are being called 10 times for work, when you have loads of other things to think… that’s the whole concept of detachment… you are not able to do that!!! Right! And if u can… you have reached the stage above others…
People crave for silence when they want to concentrate, when they want to think, when they want peace… why is peace defined that way… peace = silence, calmness…
Peace could also mean detachment…
Everyone wants to go to a hill station to relax… to a cool, calm place where there is no noise, there is no worry, there is no tension….
When you sleep at night, you are at peace, because you are out of worry… that’s a beautiful state to be in… but why take it as a thing to rely on, to depend on…
You depend on silence to think objectively…
Dependence!!! Once again dependence!!! The belief… here is the dependence…
We are not exercising the internal power… we have the powers to detach… but we want to depend on silence for it… we want to hamper that state of relaxation… that state of re-energizing but leaving it for thoughts which were left unsolved when in crowd!
Why cant silence, sleep & peace just be... why do they need to be disturbed... why is their support always required... cant we just be detached... whenever, wherever... without waiting... waiting for the moments of silence...!

To associate to the problem, to the situation, to the people and then disassociate from all everything except the core issue… and all this when you are already occupied, already among people, already within the mess…. & when you know you can do that… you know yourself!!!