It's Life!

Yeah... The easy way out to every situation, to every problem, to every solution is "Assumptions"!!! I do that more then often & generally get into trouble most of the times! Have Lost loads... relationships, people... loads... only because of taking this easy way out of solving... yet havent moved out from there! Its actually become a practise now, rather a habit! when things arent clear on why they are happening... mind starts multiplying, dividing, adding, subtracting all the possibilities... since the underlying fact is unknown & u r striving & grappling & wanting to know the facts... but u r helpless... all the efforts go down the drains... unclarity of the occurring is there & you are struggling hard, harder & hardest to know that fact which may slap on your face like the reality you didnt want to know... you take the easy way out! rather I take the easy way out... Assuming!... my assumptions are the way I want to think... so if its positive I call it powerful visualisations! & if negative... I generally live with a low! Analysing... why it happened? how did it happen? what? when? why? feel like asking this dumb why's... bloody questions... why dont you just buzz off and let me be! Why is it soooo important to think over, bring clutter, complicate further & at the end of it... feel helpless & devastated!... well.. that was a Why once again! :)
but guess thats what makes a living!... putting meanings to everything in life! Once in life I used to buy the thought that 'everything has a reason' but after doing the landmark forum jus realised that everything need not have a reason!!! be unreasonable... life will work better!...
But being unreasonable also means to give away assumptions... which I wouldnt let go off... coz at the end of the day thats what has become a part of living!
Its really funny at the rapid speed on which the thought process works... You see something not working out... a relation facing its twists, a frown you saw, a fight you witnessed, an argument... & all u can instantly start doing, is to start assuming... 'A must have happened to B, & C has to be part of A, & D & E & F'.. all the dumb assumptions which worsen your thought process, makes u weaker, justifies all your worries, makes u feel right & the other wrong, makes u feel dominant, makes u feel great coz u r the sufferer, makes u feel low & helpless coz at the end of it u just cant get out solving anything with clarity!!!
Its difficult to confront & accept & face the reality which will probably be harsh & rude for the moment but will make thoughts clearer & powerful!... but its so very easy to assume & be at the low of the moment! :) Strange is our thought process!!!